My last Persephone read in August (I note there is a Persephone Reading Week in October so might be able to slot “Long Live Great Bardfield” in then. I enjoyed the other Joanna Cannan I’ve read, “High Table“, though found it a little dated: although this is set in interwar England, the sentiments and experiences are fresh and relevant today.
Joanna Cannan – “Princes in the Land”
(25 December 2017 – from Ali, who reviewed it here)
A quietly desperate book which is beautifully done but raises the question very forcefully about how valid it is to pour all your love and care and concern and friendship into raising children when they will apparently throw it all off at seemingly the first opportunity. And we’re not talking a smothering mother here but a fair, friendly and liberal one who offers opportunities for free and frank discussion and growth. Or thinks she does. Kind of the opposite of the mother in “Guard Your Daughters”.
In this smallish book told in episodes that jump forward a few years to a decade or so in time (very clearly delineated), we first meet Patricia and Angela and their controlling, anxious mother Blanche on their way to (have to) live with their paternal grandfather after their father’s death. The forbidding old man takes a liking to fiery, unfeminine Patricia, who rides unsuitable horses and hunts (sorry, not one for the non-lovers of hunting, although there are no actual Unpleasant Scenes, just mentions), while bored by compliant Angela and Blanche, who never forgets they are there on sufferance and keeps a tight-lipped, passive-aggressive lid on herself. Living honestly is the key here.
Patricia meets a spiky working class man as she rushes around impulsively making friends on trains (the very idea!) and then we watch them transform – and I’m struggling to think of another book I’ve read recently that portrays so well how the cocoon of marriage and parenthood transforms lively young things into, here, a watchful, resourceful and domesticated mother and a complacent Oxford don, consoled by the fact that everything that happens has happened before in history.
The narrative is quite unconventional and experimental in parts, sometimes mentioning Patricia in the present tense, as though the narrator/author is a friend of hers, and memorably including a paragraph detailing the thoughts of the family horse. But it’s not so experimental that it’s tiring to read, if you know what I mean, just a little quirky.
One by one, Patricia’s children betray her and her careful raising of them, submitting to the cheaper lure of suburbia, getting embarrassingly religious or proving to shockingly NOT be horsy, and as she ages (to my exact age – oh no! She is missing some teeth but not as decrepit as the heroine of “A Lady and Her Husband“) she despairs. Will anything jolt Patricia out of her malaise?
A devastating, quiet portrait of the change that family life brings to especially women (husband Hugh’s family and catalyst appears to be the university, although he claims to have deep feelings about the family). Poor Patricia is blind to both the interior, independent lives of her children and the disdain her academic neighbours have for her old-money, upper-class ways, but she tries so hard and we long for a resurgence of her old life and vigour.
This was Book 19 in my #20BooksOfSummer project and the last book in All Virago and Persephone / All August.
Sep 02, 2018 @ 08:36:29
It is a while since I read this Persephone but yes, it does form an interesting contrast with “Guard Your Daughters”. Have you read “Hostages to Fortune” by Elizabeth Cambridge (No.41)? This is similarly about parenthood and how it can be the only thing in a woman’s life, for got or ill. I must make a note of the Persephone Week; I have still got a few to read- or I will get diverted into rereads!
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Sep 03, 2018 @ 08:53:27
Yes, two very different mothers but almost a similar result! I have read Hostages to Fortune, back in 2012 (review here https://librofulltime.wordpress.com/2012/06/25/book-reviews-15/ ) but don’t remember much about it.
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Sep 02, 2018 @ 09:48:19
Oooh, interesting. It’s difficult to find the balance sometimes as a parent. I think we were a bit over-anxious but I then compensated by violently encouraging them all to leave home and stay in Leicester. I don’t believe in keeping your kids too close, I want them to live their own lives. And I try to remember they are independent peeps and don’t want to be fussed by a doting parent all the time. Sorry – rambling off topic a bit, but I can see how this book would provoke conversation!
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Sep 03, 2018 @ 08:55:09
No, not at all, this is interesting. As a childless person I have watched people parent and have been responsible for children for bits of days and tried to provide some kind of model or compass in my interactions with them but don’t have that experience myself, so it’s very interesting to hear. You would like this book apart from the fact it contains the dreaded hunting! Grr!
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Sep 02, 2018 @ 10:41:03
So glad you enjoyed this one so much. I rate it highly, quietly devastating is right and it remains one of my favourite Persephone books.
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Sep 03, 2018 @ 08:55:24
I was so glad to read it, thank you again!
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Sep 02, 2018 @ 19:52:40
A super review, Liz. I feel quite tempted to read this book now! 😃
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Sep 03, 2018 @ 08:55:43
Thank you! It is a good one, I do recommend it!
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Sep 02, 2018 @ 21:42:46
Fantastic post ❤️❤️
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Sep 03, 2018 @ 08:56:00
Thank you – have you read this one or any other Persephones?
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Sep 03, 2018 @ 09:30:09
I haven’t read this one, but I have read a couple yes, our local library has a selection of them!
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Sep 03, 2018 @ 09:33:11
Oh, that’s great to hear. They are wonderful books in the main, I’ve read around 40 of them now.
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Sep 03, 2018 @ 09:36:06
Wow, that’s brilliant!
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Sep 04, 2018 @ 23:09:35
I do love Persephones and have read this one, though without your beautiful review my mind would never have retrieved my memory of it. Oddly, I have read some of Cannan’s mysteries, too, reissued by a small mystery press that went out of business, alas.
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Sep 05, 2018 @ 04:11:44
It seems a classic Persephone in terms of its themes, doesn’t it, and it’s certainly remained with me after reading it. I haven’t read any of her mysteries, just High Table – I probably would, though, if I came across them (that’s a shame about the small press).
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