I’ve not done a Sunday running update post for a couple of weeks but I have still been running and have had some lovely runs these past couple of weeks – and some horrible ones, of course – this photo being from an evening run when it was still light at 5pm and the sun slowly set as we went. A quick running update so I can share with the running ladies link-up and an update on two more of the eight books I’ve finished this month so far …
Here are some shots from today’s 8 miler, a lovely run in blustery conditions looking at the flowers blooming and the blossom blossoming. There were lots of daffodils (see below) as well as snowdrops and cherry blossom on the trees, and it wasn’t that cold, even though it was windy (I had to circle back to my house on my pre-meeting up section to post my extra buff, baseball cap and gloves through my letterbox).
I might as well get this put down and out there: I’ve had to withdraw from being a reserve for our running club’s places in the London Marathon (I hopefully wasn’t going to need to run anyway, as Afshin and Avril’s training is going well and there is another reserve, too). I missed three weekends of attempts at 16/17 miles in a row (a heavy cold / a terrible storm / more “teething problems” with the new cats leaving me drained, anxious and exhausted and low and without the resources necessary to push out long miles).
Yes, I could probably drag myself back onto it but I need to look after myself and rest rather than pushing myself through extra physical and mental stress. It means I’ll miss my round-the-11-route attempt, but I will have other goes at that, and I still hope to tackle the Canal Canter marathon in August (that’s more like an ultra, with a long walkers’ cut off and cake stops). I’ve not been inclined to write up updates because, frankly, I’ve been concentrating on looking after the kitties (they’re fine), adjusting arrangements in the household for looking after the kitties (lots of support, fine) and eating, sleeping, keeping up with my work and resting (getting there, supported). I will still be in London on marathon day supporting fellow sedate lady Tara and lots of other lovely folk.
Books!
As mentioned, I’ve read eight books so far this month, and I have reviewed one, so I’m going to double up on some slighter books and post a review every other day for a while. Hope that’s OK with everyone!
Chloe Coles – “Life’s a Beach”
(22 November 2018)
The second Bookshop Girl novel (read my review of the first one here) finds Paige and Holly by the sea, running the book sales tent at a book festival and getting into all sorts of scrapes, of course. When they have to babysit a diva-ish romance novelist of uncertain but great age, they find appearances can be deceptive and support and empowerment can be found in the most surprising places. Funny and feel-good but with useful, positive messages for young women.
Jane Linfoot – “The Little Wedding Shop by the Sea”
(17 December 2019)
I bought all four of this series after accidentally picking up volume 2 in The Works and realising there was back story that mattered. I was going to save this to read next Christmas (there are two set at Christmas out of the four) but needed something light and engaging.
Poppy lives upstairs at Brides by the Sea, a Cornwall wedding emporium (built up by the hard work of her boss: there’s a decent emphasis on getting what you want through hard work and details on how), licking her wounds after a break-up and trying to get a bit stronger, but also determined to stay in town and not return to the nearby village where she and best friends Immie and Cate grew up. When she gets an opportunity to add to her cake-making business by working part-time as a wedding planner at the farm (near the dreaded village), she clashes with moody boss Rafe while being wooed by a photographer who might be too good to be true, so we know what’s going to happen, but it’s cheerful and jolly and long enough to last well even as a light read. Fun, and I will read the other three.
lizipaulk
Feb 23, 2020 @ 14:32:40
Sorry to hear that life has been a little bit more stressful. Young kitties can be hilarious but exhausting. Hang in there. They eventually calm down. Do you have a garden they could use? They’re better if they can be indoor/outdoor kitties. (At least mine are.) Stay strong.
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Liz Dexter
Feb 23, 2020 @ 16:59:11
Thank you – they were 8mo when we got them so we thought they’d be over the nightmare stage. They don’t go out, although we are considering getting a catio put in, but they do have the run of a three-story house, plenty of toys, plenty of high places, and they’re siblings so very bonded. They just get into everything …
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lizipaulk
Feb 23, 2020 @ 22:02:22
Ahh. The first two years keep you busy!! 😉
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kaggsysbookishramblings
Feb 23, 2020 @ 15:59:04
Glad you’ve survived the gales – it’s been bad enough walking in them, let along running! And lighter reads are good for times of stress!
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Liz Dexter
Feb 23, 2020 @ 16:59:50
Claire and Mary Ellen ran along the canals during Ciara and said I’d have hated it!! It was quite blowy today but only in our faces for little bits, fortunately!
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Deborah Brooks
Feb 23, 2020 @ 18:09:44
Nice to have you back to the linkup! We have missed you. Sorry you have had a stressful few weeks. I love cheese but have never brought it on a run 🙂
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Liz Dexter
Feb 23, 2020 @ 18:30:00
Aw, thank you, that’s sweet of you to say! And ha – no, we finished our run at my house and I gave them the cheese. They MAY have run to their houses with it but they live about 300 and 500 steps away from me. I have run to take cheese to or collect it from another friend, and to a shop to buy it once, though.
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Stephanie Cecich Mitchell
Feb 23, 2020 @ 19:00:52
Love the flowers of the daffodils.
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Liz Dexter
Feb 23, 2020 @ 19:12:14
Thank you! They are so cheerful.
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Chocolaterunsjudy
Feb 23, 2020 @ 19:39:40
You’re very right, you have to take care of you. I’m glad that you’re beginning to feel better!
I’m so jealous of your daffodils, it’s unlikely we’ll see any until April . . . but at least some things are starting to push through!
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Liz Dexter
Feb 24, 2020 @ 08:25:37
Thank you. And it is nice to see these, and I’m now constantly reminded of how temperate the UK is!
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therightfits
Feb 23, 2020 @ 19:52:39
Signs of spring! Love the flowers.
I am sorry to hear about the stress of the kitties. I totally get it! We love our fur babies, but they can be a lot of work!
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Liz Dexter
Feb 24, 2020 @ 08:26:09
I knew you’d understand when I saw what your pup had been up to!
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Wendy
Feb 23, 2020 @ 20:05:13
I’m so glad you’re blogging again! I missed you. Sorry to hear about the uptick in your anxiety. I hope you get it all back under control. Anxiety is the worst thing. I commented on my reply to you on my post about this, but have you heard of the website The Mighty? It’s for folks with chronic conditions, like RA, anxiety, and the like. I’ve found it amazingly helpful and I’ve even contributed a few posts.
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Liz Dexter
Feb 24, 2020 @ 08:27:06
Thank you, Wendy, that’s lovely to hear. I missed blogging and my book and running communities, too. I will have a look at that site, although it’s my depression that’s chronic, I’d say, whereas the awful anxiety has only flared up around the cats old and new.
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Marcia
Feb 23, 2020 @ 20:15:14
Sorry about the stress with being sick and your kitties. Hope things have settled for you. Bummer about London but I’m sure it’s a relief too. I wish I could be there to spectate/support with you. That’d be so fun. Look at those blossoms already! We are nowhere near having flowers yet but hopefully soon!
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Liz Dexter
Feb 24, 2020 @ 08:27:59
Thank you. At least we both admit we made a mistake getting new kitties too soon – it was a hard decision to make, though. It is good having these flowers although it’s throwing down rain and really cold today!
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Lisa @ TechChick Adventures
Feb 23, 2020 @ 22:50:36
I will have to go back and research – you are tending to kitties? Speaking from experience as a foster kitten mama, it can be a lot of work for sure!! Those sights of spring look really great. There’s no signs of spring here yet. It sounds like a good decision to take care of you right now!
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Liz Dexter
Feb 24, 2020 @ 08:29:42
I’m not sure I’ve explained them fully though I did have a photo back in Dec. We adopted 8mo siblings in early December so they’re almost 11mo now. They are into everything and the little, sweet girl is an eater, leading her to have an emergency vet visit to remove part of a cotton glove, etc. etc. And we don’t know them well yet and went through a traumatic time with our poor previous cat, so we seem on edge a lot.
And thank you.
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Kim at Running on the Fly
Feb 23, 2020 @ 23:00:42
Sorry about the stress load of recent…UGH. Glad the kitties are doing better, though. There are no visible signs of Spring in my area…still some snow and mud/yuck from where it has melted. It’s still early for blossoms…so even though I love the spring-like temps (in recent days), I really want the blooming to hold off for a few more weeks because we all know there’s still more frost to come LOL
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Liz Dexter
Feb 24, 2020 @ 08:30:33
It’s throwing down rain and the heating came on in the night so it’s cold again. But I do get reminded about how temperate it is over here by all your experiences over there! And thank you. It’s been a hard few months.
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Coco
Feb 24, 2020 @ 01:15:03
Sometimes life gets busy and you have to set your priorities — and the kitties demand attention for sure! Sounds like a smart call on the marathon even if it’s a bit of a bummer.
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Liz Dexter
Feb 24, 2020 @ 08:31:51
Yes indeed, and my husband has been very good and arranged to work from home one day a week to make the kitty-wrangling more equal, which is helping. At least it’s not a paid for official marathon, and our two runners look like they will be OK doing London themselves.
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kookyrunner
Feb 24, 2020 @ 02:13:44
Sorry to hear that things have been busy and stressful – I hope that things calm down soon.
It sounds like you made the right decision in regards to the marathon. I know it wasn’t an easy decision, but I feel like you have to be 100% all in for a marathon in order for it to be a positive experience.
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Liz Dexter
Feb 24, 2020 @ 08:32:23
Thank you, and yes, indeed, you do and I need to be able to use running to support me at the moment, not drag myself through training.
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CJ
Feb 24, 2020 @ 06:19:01
8 books? wow!
Marathon training is hardcore and I totally get you… no need for more pressure. All the best with the kitties and health! Hopefully when this weather moves ON (urgh) we will all be full of the joys of spring! I am sooooooo looking forward to long warm bright sunny run! XX happy week Liz x
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Liz Dexter
Feb 24, 2020 @ 08:33:08
That’s about average for me as reading is my other hobby apart from running. I get great solace from it, too. It would be nice if it wasn’t pouring with rain this morning, I must say!
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Hannah
Feb 24, 2020 @ 16:32:02
Sorry things have been stressful, but glad you have support for everything. Kitties can be a handful!
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Liz Dexter
Feb 25, 2020 @ 08:40:38
Thank you. Yes, I hadn’t remembered how tricky younger cats are as our last boy was an adult and very chilled.
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runswithpugs
Feb 24, 2020 @ 16:32:24
I think some rest is just what you need. You’ve been pushing hard!
I can’t wait to see what other books you’ve enjoyed. I am in the middle of a great one (Such A Fun Age) and it’s ignited my bookworm spark.
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Liz Dexter
Feb 25, 2020 @ 08:41:54
Such a Fun Age is brilliant – I reviewed it on here in November, I think. I wish my PC would let me view your blog but it always warns me it’s not safe and won’t let me through!
I haven’t really been pushing hard in my running, just doing the usual fairly gentle working up to marathon distance, but the rest of my life has pushed hard on me!
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Laetitia
Feb 24, 2020 @ 18:04:27
Bringing cheese on a run is brilliant (I’m french and I’ve never thought about that lol)
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Liz Dexter
Feb 25, 2020 @ 08:40:01
The cheese was at the end of the run, however the other two probably ran home with it. I’ve run cheese between my house and a friend’s 3 miles away, both delivering and collecting …
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Michelle @ Running with Attitude
Feb 24, 2020 @ 19:48:58
I’m so sorry to hear things have been so stressful. You are so right that you need to take care of yourself – no point in risking injury to push yourself to run longer distances.
How lovely to already have flowers in bloom! I’m so ready for spring to settle in!
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Liz Dexter
Feb 25, 2020 @ 08:42:34
Yes, indeed, and thank you. Reading everyone’s non-UK blog posts has helped me realise what a mild climate we have here!
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Renée
Feb 25, 2020 @ 17:28:51
i have been thinking of you, hoping you were just ok/busy/quiet for a good reason. And yes it seems reason enough, kitties are always a good reason of course… just sorry you’ve had some life stuff going on that’s left you withdrawing from being a reserve. x
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Liz Dexter
Feb 25, 2020 @ 17:31:38
Thank you, that’s so kind of you when you have your own worries and busy-ness. The kitty stuff did knock me for six, I’m climbing back out now, I hope. It was crap to lose the marathon stuff, but something had to give, and I still hope to do the canal canter in August.
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Thomas
Feb 29, 2020 @ 18:45:32
I love this part of your post Liz: “Yes, I could probably drag myself back onto it but I need to look after myself and rest rather than pushing myself through extra physical and mental stress.” Glad you’re being intentional about your wellness and health and recognizing that just because you can do something and push yourself doesn’t mean that would be the best option for your mental health. Proud of you for your self-care and also for your community-care and sending a lot of warmth and strength, especially with the new kittens.
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Liz Dexter
Feb 29, 2020 @ 18:59:41
Thank you, Thomas – and it’s always good to have you looking out for me and cheerleading for me from afar! I had a good week of running this week (snow notwithstanding) and there’s a happier post coming tomorrow about that.
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Cari
Mar 04, 2020 @ 16:59:25
Daffy-fodils as I called them as a child and never quite break. We’ve had a mild winter but it’s still odd to see these so early, although they haven’t yet bloomed here.
Good on you for cutting the pressure of being a reserve. I look forward to your Canal Canter training and wish I was going to be there just after it like your last go on it.
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Liz Dexter
Mar 04, 2020 @ 19:11:32
Aww! I call crocuses croculuses for similar reasons! And thank you and at least you will still get all the details.
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