A book that was recommended to me by the Canadian knitting/running blogger A Petite Slice of Life. I’m not quite sure why I like books set in knitting shops so much since I am completely unable to knit (and have tried all the ways of learning: just cannot do it), but I do, so I fancied reading this one. It was indeed a fun read, with some important things to say about community and masculinity, too.
Kwana Jackson – “Real Men Knit”
(05 July 2020 – ebook)
Jesse and his three “brothers” (two of whom share a mother) were adopted by the redoubtable Mama Joy as boys – as well as running her knitting shop and community hub in Harlem, she changed their lives around and now all except Jesse are successful in their fields. She has also provided a haven for Kerry, who has now finally got her degree and a part time job she hopes to turn full time in a children’s centre.
Now Mama Joy has passed away and three of the sons want to sell up and move on, especially when they find out there are debts and worries. But Jesse wants to keep the shop going and prove he can actually come good for once, even when he feels like running away as usual. While this is a light read and a romance, he really does face up to things, even resorting to go on an apology mission to all his exes – who then all turn up at the shop relaunch! Kerry’s a good character who won’t take crap from the boys she’s grown up with, but as she works closely with Jesse on the shop, the old crush she’s always had starts to well up again. She goes for what she wants, though, and good for her.
The book is named after the Instagram account Kerry sets up, busily and cheerfully objectifying the City worker, dancer, fireman and womaniser against a background of wools. And yes, all the guys knit and are seen knitting, and share with local children how it’s taught them calm and persistence and how to concentrate.
The side characters are great, from Kerry’s feisty workmate Val to their dreadful culturally appropriating colleague and the group of rather alarming older ladies who always met at the shop for a knit and natter and don’t see why they should stop now. Older guys are shown supporting younger kids, which is nice, and the diversity of the brothers’ heritage is celebrated and occasional microaggressions pointed out carefully but not in a laboured way.
This is a slow burn with a lot of description of thought processes, but I ultimately enjoyed this fun and diverse read.
Mar 15, 2021 @ 11:47:38
This sounds cute! I used to knit when I was a teenager and am trying to learn again, very slowly 🙂
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Mar 15, 2021 @ 21:09:15
It is cute, and the women characters more empowered in the main than in some romance genre books – this has a lot more to it including detail of the work they do at the wool shop.
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Mar 15, 2021 @ 12:15:12
This sounds like such a cute read–it would be perfect after reading some of the heavier stuff I’ve been plowing through lately. And no, I cannot knit…never have been able to, lol
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Mar 15, 2021 @ 21:09:42
It was a good light one to read to be sure! I’m glad it’s not just me!
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Mar 15, 2021 @ 17:58:37
This sounds good. I cannot knit anymore due to carpal tunnel but I used to.
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Mar 15, 2021 @ 21:10:40
I’m sorry to hear that. I don’t have the eyes for cross-stitch any more, I fear!
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Mar 16, 2021 @ 13:53:01
I used to do that, too. I just lost interest when I started scrapbooking. Now I don’t do anything like that.
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Mar 16, 2021 @ 00:39:04
Sorry, I don’t knit. I don’t even own any hand knits anymore. I can remember being six or seven and Mum had just knitted me a heavy, zip up wool jacket and I sat too close with my back to the electric radiator … Oh well, I was always in trouble for something.
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Mar 18, 2021 @ 09:31:47
I have some knitted items but not clothes, and I tried and tried to learn but could never do it!
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Mar 16, 2021 @ 15:25:29
Sounds like fun! I can do the most basic of knitting, very slowly, but my mum, mother-in-law and Middle Child have all got the knitting gene! 😀
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Mar 18, 2021 @ 09:32:16
Interesting. I really want to be able to but I’ve tried all ways of learning and just cannot grasp it!
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Mar 16, 2021 @ 16:48:19
I live to knit!!
Thanks for the review.
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Mar 18, 2021 @ 09:32:45
Fabulous! You might enjoy this book then. Not sure why I like reading about knitters and wool shops so much!
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Mar 18, 2021 @ 11:29:12
You probably should try knitting again.
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Mar 18, 2021 @ 11:36:02
Oh believe me, I tried every way there was for a few years. Big needles, circular needles, sit opposite the teacher (I’m not left-handed though), sit next to the teacher, I just am unable to grasp it. And we’re talking just knitting along then along the next row, nothing complex. Can’t do it. Yet I can make curtains and do quite complicated cross-stitch and embroidery!
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Mar 18, 2021 @ 13:36:58
My knitting is basic. I still have trouble with casting on. Mental block I think.
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Mar 16, 2021 @ 17:36:14
Oh, this does sound like fun. Thanks!
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Mar 18, 2021 @ 09:33:07
Fun but with a moral centre – what’s not to like?
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Mar 16, 2021 @ 17:57:40
What a catchy title. I have relatives in Norway. Everyone knits there, so why not?
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Mar 18, 2021 @ 09:33:51
It’s a bit of wish fulfilment showing all these hunky firemen, etc., knitting away, but men do indeed knit so …
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Mar 17, 2021 @ 17:51:42
This sounds like a good, fun light read with good characters.
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Mar 18, 2021 @ 09:34:42
Yes, indeed, I don’t read many romance novels but it’s good to see strong women characters when I do!
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Mar 19, 2021 @ 17:21:53
I’ve never tried to knit, but I didn’t have much luck with crochet, so I will probably skip that. The book sounds quite diverting, and that’s one of the things I look for in books these days.
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Mar 19, 2021 @ 17:28:12
Yes – I got sucked right into the world and didn’t want to leave it!
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Mar 28, 2021 @ 17:58:56
Cute read, love the destigmatization of men engaging in more traditionally “feminine” activities. And I’m glad that the microaggressions were pointed out and that that process was written in a tactful way. Glad that you continue to name these dynamics in your reviews!
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Mar 30, 2021 @ 08:53:07
Thank you – I do try to. I had a funny battle with the one I’m reviewing today where there was one thing I just couldn’t chime with – but it wasn’t the author being a different race, age and gender to me!
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