Book 11 of my 20 Books of Summer project, and I’m celebrating Past Liz for her idea of slotting two short books in amongst the pile for this month (I’m putting my slow progress down to it all being made up of non-fiction, and reckon I’ll catch up with the novels I have for next month. I have almost finished “What White People Can Do Next” and then I’m on to “Brit(ish) so should end the month with one hanging over from this month, again. That’s fine!
I do not know when I bought this book! From its position on my TBR shelf, I’m guessing August 2020. Oops. I was going to review it alongside Emma Dabiri’s “What White People Can Do Next” but having read most of that book, Dabiri takes exception to the use of the term ally and the concept of allyship, in her theoretically more deep and wide-ranging book (which has a different purpose, to be fair) so I’m splitting them up!
Sophie Williams – “Anti-Racist Ally: An Introduction to Action & Activism”
(August? 2020)
Read books about Black and brown people living, not just dying. Engage in content where they thrive, rather than just survive. Remembering the full and complex range of lives and emotions in marginalised people is humanising, and a lot of fun. (p. 119)
Williams is an Instagrammer and she takes that platform’s strong design and succinct messages through to her small-format book. Each left-hand page gives a question, heading or objection, with the answer or message kept to one side of the facing page. This means it’s easy to read, and easy to flick through to find the section you need.
Williams is pretty forthright and provocative – as she has every right to be. She decries speech rather than action and bandwagon-jumping. She says things which might make the reader uncomfortable – such as her assertion that we need to do uncomfortable things and put ourselves in uncomfortable situations in order to enact, rather than perform, allyship.
The book takes the traditional form of such pieces, providing terms and distinctions, then working through the idea that not being racist is the absolute baseline and not enough. Interestingly, she acknowledges her own change, both through the book when talking about how people can change, and in her discussion of the use of “womxn” which she used to use but not now it’s been adopted by people who want to deny the full womanhood of trans and non-binary women. I’ve seen this elsewhere, and it’s one example of the shifts in language we’re seeing at the moment. OK, Dabiri would say this doesn’t matter so much if it distracts from the need to dismantle capitalism, but we’ll go there another day (how one’s reading of one book affects one’s view of the last one!).
Williams moves on to talk about what racism is, addressing objections such as “I don’t see colour” and “I can’t be racist because my best friend / postman is Black”. She then looks at what true allyship is, and covers intersectionality well. She describes how racism evidences nowadays – less white sheets and more race pay gaps and institutional racism. This includes the use of Black people to provide emotional labour in rehashing their experiences of racism for a White audience. She has a UK and US perspective here which is useful, although acknowledges different issues are found in the two areas.
Then we get into the nuts and bolts of it – how to be an ally. Anxieties are covered first – including I don’t want to make it all about me and I can’t really do anything. I’ve certainly suffered from the latter one, as a lot of the books and resources I’ve found cover how to address inequalities in a workplace or community group, neither of which I’m really in. While then moving through from addressing issues within yourself, your close circles, your community, your workplace, institutions, brands and government, she has a theme that a) you have to make yourself uncomfortable sometimes and b) you use what platforms you’ve got. This inspired me personally to keep on reading and then writing about books centred on Black people’s experience on here, my platform, even though they often don’t get the engagement my other posts have (and even though I’ve always read and reviewed books by Global Majority Peoples; maybe just not so much non-fiction). She leaves room for celebrating and amplifying Black joy, asking White folk not to keep sharing images of pain and suffering that will re-traumatise our Black friends and contacts, something I don’t do a lot, and certainly not explicit images, but I have done to an extent. We always need to keep learning!
At the end of the book, we have a book list and I was pleased to see I have read six, have a further three to read, and don’t have six, some of which I’ve chosen not to read yet as they’re US centric and I’m working on learning about UK stuff first.
A worthwhile little book with some good ideas that don’t just revolve around the workplace.
This is Book 11 in my 20 Books of Summer project.
Jul 28, 2021 @ 19:14:02
It does indeed sound like a worthwhile addition to the discussions, and I do applaud you for what you’re doing here on the blog. You engage with so many fascinating books which widen perspectives and outlooks, so you *are* doing your bit to help – and I appreciate that as one of your readers!
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Jul 28, 2021 @ 20:24:55
Thank you so much! Reading that means a lot to me, as I’ve felt a bit downcast and like I’m being performative and worthy and driving people away! I do love the variety of voices in translation I see on your blog, and your championing of the less-well-known, too.
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Jul 28, 2021 @ 19:56:00
The comment about using and then changing her mind about “womxn” is interesting. I’m not sure what removing the “e” or “a” does. I’ve seen womyn before. Anyway, “womxn” reminded me of the way people use Latinx instead of Latina or Latino. In recent years. I’ve heard a few Latina/o people say they had the X and that it was put there by well-intentioned people who are not Latino/a. They give the same reason about gender affirmation for trans people.
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Jul 28, 2021 @ 20:26:16
Womyn to my mind is a really old-school 1970s feminist use when Mary Daly was splitting words provocatively in her dictionary. I have seen about this perceived imposition in the case of Latinx too myself but I can’t remember where now of course!
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Jul 29, 2021 @ 18:07:24
The most prominent person I know who does not use or like Latinx is Maria Hinojosa, a journalist who wrote Once I Was You: A Memoir of Love and Hate in a Torn America.
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Jul 30, 2021 @ 10:39:58
Thank you for the data point!
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Jul 28, 2021 @ 20:51:04
I have not heard of this book although I feel like there are a lot of books of this nature circulating. As a black woman, I have to take these sorts of books with a grain of salt. I know they are well-intentioned, but I can only imagine how overwhelming it could be reading one of these and feeling like you aren’t doing enough. I guess, that’s the point of them! Even as a black woman, I have to really try to read books by black authors. And I hate when I end up not liking it. I think it’s great that you read a lot of different types of books by different types of people! I think as readers that’s all anyone can really ask for!
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Jul 28, 2021 @ 21:04:45
Thank you so much for your perspective on this! Yes, indeed, there are a lot of books on this topic, some better than others. I mean, it does give one something to think about and some ideas of specific things to do, although there is a lot centred on workplace stuff (I have to sort of feed that through to my husband, as I’m self-employed). The Emma Dabiri I’ve almost finished is a marvellous antidote to them, talking about working together to dismantle capitalism and inequality, and I can’t wait to share about it. She’s big on not shaming people into doing “good” works out of pity and not doing performative empty acts, so provocative in a different way.
I have always read a range of books and yes, I think that’s really important. I great up in a very monocultural place so I’ve been fascinated by different people’s stories all my life. I’ve tried to snap up the wave of books published on and by Global Majority People authors as I am aware these phases come and go (I really hope this one doesn’t go) and I’ve been around long enough to remember a big wave of different voices being published in the late 90s but not being sustained.
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Jul 28, 2021 @ 23:32:30
I think it’s interesting to read this sort of personal commentary but reading any single one of this kind of book also risks a reader taking one writer’s opinions as dogmatic. I’m sure there’s someone in her “community” (another troublesome word) or several someones who holds the opposite opinion on every one of these questions for their own well-thought out reasons. That’s where it gets really interesting (but also, when beginning perhaps, challenging), realizing that you really have to think about all of it and get inside the questions to figure out your own solutions, to have difficult discussions and conversations. Keep reading, keep posting, keep learning: what’s the alternative?!
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Jul 29, 2021 @ 05:36:26
Well I guess the alternative is only read and review books by White, female 20th century authors, which are the ones that are most popular. But I’ve never done that!
Anyway yes, I agree – I’ve read quite a lot of books on this area, as you’ll have seen, and they have overlaps and agreements, but some central points either in the specific “how to be an ally” books or the broader ones that have lists or advice as part of a wider historical or sociological context (call out racism you witness, do the work yourself, learn about history, donate, push your company on diversity, promote GMPs’ work on your platforms, amplify their voices seem to be the main ones).
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Jul 29, 2021 @ 11:16:46
It sounds like this had more practical advice to offer than Dabiri’s book.
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Jul 29, 2021 @ 11:22:26
Ha yes, I mean Dabiri is not pro this kind of book (I am saving your review as I’m writing mine tonight) but I was sort of expecting something more than well there’s a big gap, what do we do, just pop and dismantle capitalism …
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Jul 29, 2021 @ 11:27:44
An easy task to fit in on a Thursday afternoon 😉 Hard to disagree with her reasoning, though.
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Jul 29, 2021 @ 19:56:12
Another fascinating sounding book, and one that is important, and perhaps should be uncomfortable for us a bit . I completely understand that feeling of not doing enough, but these posts you write about books like this is something at least. Some of the books you’ve read recently I hadn’t heard of, probably because I don’t read as much non fiction as you.
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Jul 30, 2021 @ 10:40:42
Thank you for the vote of confidence. And yes, indeed, some discomfort is necessary, but the next read doesn’t see it in quite the same way!
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Book review – Emma Dabiri – “What White People Can Do Next” | Adventures in reading, running and working from home
Jul 30, 2021 @ 08:00:40
Jul 30, 2021 @ 21:36:08
I love this review Liz! I so appreciate the quote you pulled about how it’s important to focus on people of color’s joyful experiences and not just our encounters with racism. Also it sounds like a lot of the author’s recommendations are spot on, such as her critique of colorblindness and the notion that someone cannot be racist simply because they have a friend of color (totally not true). In terms of what you’re doing, while I don’t believe in giving white people cookies for engaging in racial justice work, I think it is important that you’re continuing buy books by people of color, promote them on your blog, and engage with them in thoughtful ways. I do think that materially benefits people of color and will hopefully encourage your white readers (as well as male, cisgender, etc.) readers to think about how they can take action in their own lives and/or diversify their reading choices. I’m glad you’re continuing to read books by people of color not just as a reaction to really tragic, awful murders of Black people or just when other racist events make the news.
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Jul 31, 2021 @ 15:00:04
Ha – I totally wasn’t cookie-soliciting there but I really appreciate your feedback and I’m glad you feel I am doing something worthwhile!
I put it somewhere else that with my buying of this slew of books over the past year, I’m so aware that we’re in a (OK long) period of the fashionableness of the publication and promotion of books by GMP folk (and LGBTQIA+ folk as well) but these don’t necessarily last (I remember a great flourishing of diverse books, more fiction, in the late 1990s when I picked up a lot of authors to like and follow) and that one didn’t last. So pick them all up then drip-feed them.
I’ve actually changed my tack slightly for the end of my 20 Books of Summer Month 2 and will be reading Brit(ish) and Black, Listed later in the year – I have promoted a novel about an Indian-American boy and Armistead Maupin’s autobiography in their place. Then I can spread things out a little more.
Regarding allyship, I’d love to know what you feel about Emma Dabiri’s book which I reviewed next, which is the polar opposite to this one!
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