There have been a few books by US women distance runners coming out recently: we’ve had Alison Mariella Désir’s “Running While Black” with its focus on racism and Lauren Fleshman’s “Good for a Girl” with its focus on eating disorders and women in running. Kara Goucher also has one out, “The Longest Race” about her life in running including the traumas of being part of the Nike Oregon Project, which I haven’t got hold of yet, and we have this one, from Des Linden, Boston Marathon winner in 2018 (so I’m posting this on an appropriate date as it’s Boston Marathon 2023 today!) about being an outsider and having different interests, coming back from a serious health issue and her issues with doping in running. This one was a review copy kindly sent to me by a friend – Wendy has reviewed it, too, here, and Cari has reviewed it along with Kara’s book, here.
Des Linden – “Choosing to Run: A Memoir”
(06 April 2023, gift)
As athletes and support crew members continue to file onto the bus, my expression says, Don’t even think about sitting in the empty seat next to me. Ordinarily, that seat would be filled by one of my coaches, but not today. in fact, I’m very confident that my coaches for most of the last thirteen years will be actively rooting against me. (p. 30)
In this book, written with Bonnie D. Ford, who is acknowledged on the cover and does a good job of making it seem Des is telling us her story directly, Des both shares her journey to and after her epic Boston Marathon win and the story of the win itself. It’s really cleverly structured so we have chapters interspersed with the chronological ones taking us to just before the race (which is where the above quotation comes from: we won’t find the solution to the mysterious comments for a while) through the first, middle and last miles, the terrible weather almost another character in the narrative or participant in the race.
I didn’t know much about Des before reading this book, but what I have come to really admire about her is her attention to detail, her deep, deep knowledge of the Boston course, her amazing tenacity (although this is almost her undoing, too, as she tries to train through the beginning of a very serious health condition), and, of course, her unflinching honesty about her feelings about the doping which started to engulf long-distance racing as it has sprinting and other sports.
There’s a lot less about her childhood sports and training than in Lauren Fleshman’s book, but interestingly, there’s a definite “difficult father” theme here, too, although Des has been able to maintain a good and less-competitive relationship with her sister. Des mentions the eating disorders that are rife in the sport but manages to avoid them; she lives a more rounded lifestyle than some others I’ve read about, house-sharing with a non-athlete at university and developing an interest in travel and bourbon as she moves through her running career. She works with an unorthodox training group and gives details of how that and her Brooks sponsorship worked. She’s funny and she swears and is blisteringly honest at times, but honours both the exceptional athletes who have gone before her and the “ordinary” runners in the pack behind her at a marathon who are trying just as hard as she is, and she clearly acts as a role model for younger athletes, who thank her for speaking out on things they’re not able to be as vocal about at their stage in their careers: this all makes her relatable and an engaging person to read about.
Apr 17, 2023 @ 08:42:30
Sounds like a good story about a woman succeeding in a sport against the odds Liz. By coincidence The Guardian features an article this morning about Fatima Whitbread by Emine Saner and it reminded me of our previous discussion about her.
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Apr 17, 2023 @ 09:34:46
Yes, the doping odds were stacked against her and she also suffered a serious illness at one point. I saw the piece about Fatima Whitbread, such a strong woman and inspiration.
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Apr 17, 2023 @ 10:28:54
This makes me wonder Liz. Do the talented amongst us succeed on their own despite the setbacks or so they need a helping hand, like Maggie Whitbread for Fatima? It’s a theme I may take up in a future blog.
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Apr 17, 2023 @ 14:38:28
Interesting what you say about her having a rounded lifestyle, Liz – I always imagine it’s the single minded intensity needed to train to a high level as an athlete that must be potentially so damaging. To succeed and still have a normal life – is that possible?
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Apr 18, 2023 @ 10:20:38
She does seem to have managed it, but it’s interesting as yes, it’s not that common.
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Apr 17, 2023 @ 15:20:31
I agree that it makes her so much more relatable. She’s faster than us, but faces some of the same issues in terms of mystery ailments, injuries and frustrating runs. I feel like she’s second fiddle here since she hasn’t won NYC, but I find her story as interesting or more than Shalane’s, and I loved seeing where they intersected.
Des’ wasn’t light, but having read Kara’s, it’s much much ligheter. Almost wish I’d switched the order.
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Apr 18, 2023 @ 10:21:32
It’s difficult, isn’t it, as it would be interesting to read Kara’s then see what it looked like from Des’ position of being on the inside but also the outside of the NOP. And yes to the relatability.
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Apr 17, 2023 @ 20:36:30
I’ve always rooted for Des–she’s that scrappy runner who doesn’t fit the mold of an elite athlete. Kind of a workingman’s runner, so to speak. I agree with Cari that Des’s memoir wasn’t light but personally, I am glad I read it before Kara’s. Des’ memoir actually surprised me and I finished feeling like she’s an elite that I’d actually feel comfortable running with (albeit much slower than she does, lol).
Nice review.
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Apr 18, 2023 @ 10:22:28
Thank you and yes, I know what you mean, and with an ordinary life and friends as well. I didn’t know much about her from over here so it was interesting to read her story.
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Apr 17, 2023 @ 23:29:22
it’s on my book shelve….I read slowly…
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Apr 18, 2023 @ 10:23:16
I hope you enjoy it. I realised Boston was coming up and I could match the review to the day, which encouraged me to read it almost as soon as it arrived!
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Apr 18, 2023 @ 22:20:03
Great review! On my list to read
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Apr 19, 2023 @ 08:11:51
Thank you – I hope you enjoy it, too!
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Apr 20, 2023 @ 08:58:09
The author sounds like a resilient woman, negotiating things that could have derailed her. It is always good to see such honesty in these types of books.
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Apr 21, 2023 @ 14:54:48
Yes, there’s been a really good slew of very honest books by running women, which has been refreshing.
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Cari Reads: Des Linden and Kara Goucher – travellingcari.com
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Apr 26, 2023 @ 10:27:10
I think this might suit one or two of the readers I look after on our book subscriptions service. Not a book I have come across before, so thanks for the review, Liz. X
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Apr 27, 2023 @ 06:40:19
If you’re only going to offer them one of the three by White women I mention, I’d go for this one as it covers eating disorders a bit (Lauren Fleshman goes into a lot more detail) and institutional doping a bit (Kara Goucher goes into a lot more detail). It doesn’t cover race at all, though, so I’d pair the Alison Mariella Désir with it if possible.
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